I, also, do not know who else has it in real life except for my daughter who has AS and my grandson who has uveitis. I do not talk with them about many of the difficulties I have because I do not wnt to scare them. I also have MS. I have made a group with six other women who have MS and we exercise together online. I know that Spondylitis Association of America has podcasts and groups. I haven't joined any group yet, but I may as my life settles down. I appreciate this community.